Never Procrastinate

If you find any work to do, just do it. Never postpone it for tomorrow, day after tomorrow or in some time. Don't Procrastinate to do work on time.

If you are habitual of doing work immediately, you feel great happiness.

Recently I also got this habit. If we have this habit then all tasks will be completed on time. If we postpone work, it would never be completed. Other tasks which are related to it, will get disturbed. If it got completed, it would surely take more time.

If we stick with this habit, it will become our good quality. Doing all tasks on time will lead us to the path of success.

Once we do a task on time in our daily routine life then it will gradually occur in our professional life also. We would be able to complete a task on time in office.

We will become successful in our personal and professional life both.

Someone has said the secret of your future is hidden in your daily routine. Once you are doing perfectly your daily routine activities, future will also be perfect. I agree with this.

If all tasks are getting completed on time then it will give positive effects to our health. Our mind will be fresh.

Whatever Happy Pals You are Getting now, Just Live

Generally, we don’t live our present. We think let us stretch a little bit to us and might be we will get more. We don’t live our present. We ruin our present for brightening our future.

But I would say just enjoy your present. You will feel extreme happiness. We don’t know what is going to be happening in future.We will get more or not. We would be able to see future or not. Nothing is decided. Your present is only in front of you. If you miss any happy moments, these won’t be back to you.

Previously I was also not living my present but now I don’t miss a single moment. If I get any happy moments, I cheer up immediately.

Truly, your present is more bright than future.

What are the Relations

What are the Relations

Relations are not just for namesake. Relations are live when emotions and feelings are live towards other persons. If relations are not live then there is no meaning. Relations without feelings, emotional attachments are like a human being without a soul.

If you are not able to feel the pain of a person and you are in a relationship for name sake, seriously there is no meaning. Better discard these types of relationships.

How relationship will be strong

When two persons share their personal matters with each other then only it will be strong. Otherwise, it will be just for name sake only.

For example, there is a strong relationship between two friends because they share each and every matter with each other.

Another example, we see many couples. They have a better understanding and strong relationship. Somewhere both of them share their matters with each other.

Sometimes you don’t share everything with other persons but you will say still we are having a firm relationship because we keep faith on each other.

So I would say, definitely these type of relationships are also strong. But bonding will reduce gradually. For making it strong, you have to talk at least once in a week with each other.

Sometimes your best friends become common friends because either you don’t have the time or you are unable to maintain a relationship. You are not sharing everything with each other.

I personally feel this thing. I felt positive and negative impact both.

I am having some relations with a strong relationship. On the other side, I am having some relations where I don’t feel tight relationship. Those relations are just for namesake. Sometimes I don’t feel good.

The reason is that somewhere exchange of thoughts is missing.

Conclusion

Just analyze yourself. If you are also having some relationships with closed ones for name sake only then try to make it strong. Give some time to them. 

When People will Listen to You

One day I was thinking and this question came to my mind. There are many reasons so that people will listen to you and pay attention to your words. You can’t bind them to listen to you.

Firstly, when you are holding a reputed position or having power. 

For example, we have to listen to our managers, leaders and seniors. They are having higher positions. It happens rarely when we can ignore them.

Another example, we have to follow rules. Sometimes decisions are not in favour of a layman. Some persons were supporting currency demonetization. Some persons were not ready to accept. It is decided by our government. Our Leader is in a high position. Everyone has to follow rules.

Secondly, when we win the confidence of others then people listen to us. In daily life, we see many examples.

I feel, one of my friends is a good example. I have seen many times. His near and dear ones, relatives, friends, managers listen to him. Because somewhere he has won the confidence of them.

When we win the confidence of family members then they listen to us.

You can win the confidence of others by your deeds and actions.

Thirdly, when you are having an emotional attachment with a person. 

For example, we listen to our parents and they listen to us. We are having an emotional attachment to each other. We understand and respect feelings.

Fourthly, when you have done some sacrifices for a person.

For example, Parents do sacrifices for their children. Children understand the sacrifices of them. They respect and listen to them. Sometimes they don’t agree with their statement that is due to generation gap. I personally feel sacrifices play important role in life. It can be anything whether sacrifices of things, sacrifice done by husband for his wife, sacrifice done by a wife for his husband, sacrifice towards the family. People value your sacrifices. By doing this, you can win their heart.

Conclusion, if you want to get people listen to you then you must be having great power, great position, emotional attachment or you have done some sacrifices.

But it doesn’t mean you are chasing it like anything. There is no need to prove anyone, just do work in a correct way. By the time, you will acquire. :)

What habits would you like to continue in future

We all know, Good habits bright up our future. After developing these habits, We feel happiness and desire to work with enthusiasm. I thought to build some good habits this year and maintain in the future.

Following are the habits which I would like to continue.

• Yoga- My brother does Yoga daily. He told me many times, but I was not much interested. From Oct 2017, I have started to do yoga daily. I am feeling positive effects in my life. Still, I am doing yoga. I hope it will persist in my life.

• Feeding Birds- One day I kept lentils in sunlight for drying and I saw that birds came there to peck lentil. From that day I have decided to feed birds. I am feeding wheat, lentil, maize to them. Whenever I see them, feel good. I wish I can continue this. 

• Cooking- I am getting interested in preparing various dishes. I always try to prepare delicious and tasty food. Daily I learn some new recipe and decide to prepare. Hopefully, I’ll be perfect and smart in cooking.

• Exploring Places- I and my husband live in Chennai. We are exploring many places. Recently we have visited Balaji, Tiruchanoor, Forum Vijaya malls, Express Avenue, Spencer Plaza. I hope, we will explore many places in this world. 

• Stroll in evening- I regularly go for a stroll in the night at the terrace. I feel relax and calm. I hope to walk fast and keep it up.

• Reading Books- I am interested in reading books. It has many good effects in life. Our vocabulary gets strong and we see the world differently. My husband encouraged me. Now I am always reading books. I hope, this good habit will be persistent in my life.

• Blogging- My husband encouraged me to write blogs. I have started to write blogs and till now I have written 13 blogs. I am writing as per my knowledge and experience. Wishing to keep continue.

What habits would you like to build and continue in coming years? Just think, analyze and write about yourself. Surely, it will give happiness. :)