What are the Relations
Relations are not just for namesake. Relations are live when emotions and feelings are live towards other persons. If relations are not live then there is no meaning. Relations without feelings, emotional attachments are like a human being without a soul.
If you are not able to feel the pain of a person and you are in a relationship for name sake, seriously there is no meaning. Better discard these types of relationships.
How relationship will be strong
When two persons share their personal matters with each other then only it will be strong. Otherwise, it will be just for name sake only.
For example, there is a strong relationship between two friends because they share each and every matter with each other.
Another example, we see many couples. They have a better understanding and strong relationship. Somewhere both of them share their matters with each other.
Sometimes you don’t share everything with other persons but you will say still we are having a firm relationship because we keep faith on each other.
So I would say, definitely these type of relationships are also strong. But bonding will reduce gradually. For making it strong, you have to talk at least once in a week with each other.
Sometimes your best friends become common friends because either you don’t have the time or you are unable to maintain a relationship. You are not sharing everything with each other.
I personally feel this thing. I felt positive and negative impact both.
I am having some relations with a strong relationship. On the other side, I am having some relations where I don’t feel tight relationship. Those relations are just for namesake. Sometimes I don’t feel good.
The reason is that somewhere exchange of thoughts is missing.
Conclusion
Just analyze yourself. If you are also having some relationships with closed ones for name sake only then try to make it strong. Give some time to them.
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